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Wednesday, May 31, 2006

3's A Crowd

I understand your words
But no matter how gentle you say it, there are some things that are hard to explain
It is not worth hurting this love
No use according blame because I am already exhausted trying to save this relationship
There's no definite answer on just who is loving who
Even if the heart has changed, all is not unforgiven

She is just the most innocent Third Party
And even if she dissappears this moment, tell me what can I gain?
How can I blame her?
She is just the Third Party that rushed in accidentally
The problems between us already existed before she arrived
Even if I am angry, I understand
It is not right to let her bear all the responsibility

Hey Girl, you listen
Every love relationship has its competitors
I'm not jealous that you guys are happy
Although my life has its up's and down's
He is still a fine guy, our choice is not a coincidence
Use your youthfulness daringly
I will live to make this lost become a gain

- The Third Party, Fish Leong



Have you ever been Number 3 in a messy love triangle?
Has a someone ever intruded into your bliss, taken away something so dear to you, leaving you hurt and bitter?
Remember when you swore never to be the one who takes away another person's happiness but let your heart rule your head instead?
Can you be so magnanimous as to justify it by telling yourself the problems already existed way before? And not to start the emotional blame game?
Is there such a thing as an innocent Third Party?

If 3's a crowd, think about how 4 would turn out...it happens...

17 Comments:

Blogger kona said...

why can't there be a innocent third party? life's just like that...

8:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

its the one who takes the plunge who is guilty cause he is the "one" who has the power to chose..

9:03 AM  
Blogger kona said...

got such thing as varying degrees of guilt then? or is it all or nothing i.e. black or white? no grey?

11:00 AM  
Blogger FlyingMuffyn said...

when it comes to matters of the heart, is there such a thing as black and white?

its one of those things dat you can argue till the cows come home. also one of those things dat, until ur in it experiencing the rush/pain urself, it's hard understanding why people do 'stupid' things.

11:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Then again what is stupid and what is smart ? no right no wrongs in emotions isnt it? i believe no matter where and what...there is black and white and grey.

12:56 PM  
Blogger kona said...

cows come home liao lo...

u're right, both of you...it's a witch's pot...we shall debate more over a pint eh? ;)

eh muff, friday how? or rather, did you manage to find it last night?

1:36 PM  
Blogger unkster said...

you can't control feelings. you can only manage your actions and how you choose to address the feelings. you can choose stay out of the 'danger zone' and avoid the person(s), but it won't change the fact that the feelings exist.

4:59 PM  
Blogger FlyingMuffyn said...

yes, Control. Dats wat separates the Men from the Boys...

12:40 AM  
Blogger kona said...

agreed ;)

8:47 AM  
Blogger princesslonglegs said...

u can innocently become a third party, but then to remain a third party is a choice that is not so innocent oredi...

12:04 AM  
Blogger FlyingMuffyn said...

insightful as always....

2:31 AM  
Blogger kona said...

decisions decisions ;)

9:34 AM  
Blogger FlyingMuffyn said...

better be man enuff to stick by them

10:50 AM  
Blogger kona said...

easier said than done, when faced with the situations described...

when emotions get mixed up in decision-making, all bets are off...

2:27 PM  
Blogger FlyingMuffyn said...

wouldn't it be nice to make cold, unfeelingly calculated decisions

8:25 PM  
Blogger kona said...

nice but you'd be a robot then....emotions are what makes humans human...with all the associated baggage...

8:32 AM  
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