There are some things you can control. There are others you conveniently leave to fate. And if you believe in God, you would prefer to say that the really tricky ones are in His hands.
Finding that special someone is one of them.
Where do you draw the line and concede that 'I've tried my best' and then progress to "l'll leave it to divine intervention'? When does eager endeavour turn to despondent desperation? What if that Someone slowly becomes just about Anyone?
For those who are alone this Valentine's, perhaps His hands are working on something bigger for you. But remember, products of such celestial calibration are usually manifested only by the work of your own.
Its not easy. But that goes for anything out of the ordinary isn't it?